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365 DAYS OF GRATITUDE – DAY 108: Giving It Your All

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Giving it your all in every moment does not mean that you work harder, push more, get more done and cross things off your list faster. What it means is that you open yourself up more, that you allow yourself to be fully present, that you decide to give yourself and others a break, that you choose to really hear what others say to you and what you say to yourself. It might seem like an easy thing to do, but from what I see, very few people are able to do that. Why? Because being present means that they become aware of themselves and what they are truly feeling. And that scares them.

How about you decide right now that you are willing to be more present? You do not need to make big promises to yourself, just be willing to do something different.

Your willingness to allow a different way of being will start to change things in your life. You will slowly start to feel more ease, more flow and less strife; your relationships will improve and you will experience synchronicity.

I say, go for it! It is worth giving it a try.

Love,

Rucsandra

365 DAYS OF GRATITUDE – DAY 107: Are You Giving It Your All?

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Tonight I sat in front of my computer, ready to write my next entry and I started to relax (as I always do before I write my posts), because I trust the process of writing  my 365 days gratitude blog. As I sat quietly for a few moments, allowing inspiration to kick in, I realized that one of the reasons why life flows with grace and ease for me is because I am giving it my all, in every single moment.

What I want to share with you is this: one of the most powerful and effective ways to shift a situation, to change an outcome and to create what you truly desire is to acknowledge and appreciate what you are living right now; even when what you are going through in the moment is challenging, hurtful, hard or disheartening. If you are giving it your all, you are saying yes to life, you are appreciating that life has ups and down and most of all, you are committing yourself to living fully, authentically, without holding back, without laying blame, without feeling trapped.

In this very moment ask yourself: are you giving it your all? Are you fully present, are you acknowledging what is without fear, without judgment, without blame?

Just ask yourself these questions and allow the answers to come to you. Breathe. Ask. Allow. Hear the answers.

I will come back with more tomorrow.

Love,

Rucsandra

365 DAYS OF GRATITUDE – DAY 97: Are You Allowing Or Resisting?

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What do you feel in this very moment? Do you feel something positive or do you feel something negative? Take a moment and check in. Do you feel clear, relaxed and positive about your life in general, or are you experiencing negative emotions?

This is important. Important. Very important!

“Negative emotion is your indicator of resistance, while positive emotion is your indicator of allowance. And they are on the same meter: allowance; resistance. Allowance; resistance.” – Abraham – Hicks

Tune in with yourself and bring your emotions to the surface.

What are you resisting? What are you not allowing to flow easily into your life?

I use this emotional barometer every day. I decided long time ago that I will not work against myself and that I will always be on my side. If I don’t feel good inside I know that I am resisting life and that I am struggling with myself. So I take the time to realign, to release, to clear and start feeling better. Every day.

Are you on your side?

Love,

Rucsandra

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