There is so much information available to us in this day and age that we can easily get confused, overwhelmed and start thinking that the solution to whatever it is that we are seeking lies outside ourselves.
It does not.
If your head hurts from looking at all the options and advice available, then stop.
Search no more.
Pay attention to yourself: to your heart, to how you feel and to what you desire.
The answer you are looking for lies within you.
Let your mind rest for a little while and ask yourself what is it that you are looking for.
How do you feel?
What do you want?
Look inside and you will realize that the answer to your question is right there. The solution is right there.